If you compare the words of an everyday conversation with those of a coaching coach, you will find a clear difference. Professional coaches do not use “roundabout” language.
The premise for coaching to work is that the coach’s words must be understood by the client. To achieve this, it is more important than anything else to be “straightforward and easy to understand”.
First of all, it should be simple!
（For example)
What do you really want to do?
What are you thinking right now?
What is your state of mind right now?
What have you learned?
What do you see?
And then I throw in some words that make the client think deeply!
The goal of coaching is to create situations in the session that the client may not think about or think about in everyday life.
We all have our own habits of thinking, especially when we are alone. In addition, we find ourselves in a “porcupine dilemma” with people with whom we are in frequent contact on a daily basis. In Schopenhauer’s fable, we approach people because it is cold, but if we get too close to them, we get pricked by their thorns and it hurts.
（Example.)
How do you always feel?
How does that mood affect you and how does it help you?
When do you feel helpless?
What is a rich and fulfilling life like?
When you are at your best, what makes you that way?
What are you resisting?
What do you never want to change?
What drives you now?
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This article was written in Japanese and converted into English using a translation tool. We hope you will forgive us for any inadequacies.
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