Even if people are given the same things or the same opportunities, not everyone who is given them will do equally well. Even when dealing with the same product, there are those who can sell it and those who cannot. Even if they join the same company at the same time, there are those who rise to the top and those who do not.
Why is that?
The answer is that “your standards create your life.
From the time you were born until today, what have you done and what have you not done?
We live our lives by making various choices, consciously and unconsciously. In other words, we exist today through a chain of decisions.
If you had made different choices each time, you would be a different person than you are now, and you might be leading a different life in a parallel world.
To be a professional coach, you must make it a habit to constantly ask yourself questions. By asking yourself to grow even a little more than you are now, you will build your personal foundation as a professional coach and your “total personality as a person.
What are the criteria for my choices? Ask yourself the following question: “What is my criterion of choice?
Did I do what I did because I thought I would?
Did I do it because I thought I should?
Did I not do it because I thought it was wrong to do it?
Did you do something you thought was wrong, but did not do it?
Did you say what you were going to say because you were going to say it?
Did you think about saying it, but didn’t say it?
Did you say something because you thought it was wrong to say it?
Did you say something you thought you shouldn’t say, but didn’t say it?
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At each moment, “Did you do it? Did I not?” The reason for this is that your criteria, whether conscious or unconscious, are the result of your decision-making based on your judgment that it is the better choice for you.
Then, what was your “standard” that you have been “choosing” from time to time?
And were they healthy ones that led you to growth, happiness, and success in achieving your goals?
We can all learn a lot from self-reflection.
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