{"id":2100,"date":"2023-01-10T00:01:00","date_gmt":"2023-01-09T15:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/?p=2100"},"modified":"2024-03-11T17:52:25","modified_gmt":"2024-03-11T08:52:25","slug":"logotherapy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/en\/encyclopedia\/logotherapy\/","title":{"rendered":"What is feedback with the aid of \u201cRational Emotive Behavior Therapy\u201d\uff1f"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"628\" src=\"https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/speeds\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/cbl20230110.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-669\" srcset=\"https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/speeds\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/cbl20230110.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/speeds\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/cbl20230110-820x429.jpg 820w, https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/speeds\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/cbl20230110-600x314.jpg 600w, https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/speeds\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/cbl20230110-768x402.jpg 768w, https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/speeds\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/cbl20230110-840x440.jpg 840w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>It is said that &#8220;people are animals of assumption&#8221;. Even when we think we are looking at things objectively, we can see cultural backgrounds and the existence of different values in each person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the skills of coaching is &#8220;feedback\u201d.<br>The coach acts as a &#8220;mirror&#8221; for the other person and tells them &#8220;what he\/she sees,&#8221; &#8220;what he\/she hears,&#8221; and &#8220;what he\/she feels&#8221;. It is not only the positive, but also the negative, that is delivered to the client using &#8220;I-messages&#8221;.<br>However, what we need to be careful of here is that the feedback itself is not assumed by the coach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cRational Emotive Behavior Therapy&#8221; is a method that uses logic to explain what people &#8220;assume&#8221; and was founded by Albert Ellis, an American clinical psychologist. Let me explain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>People build their world according to how they &#8220;receive&#8221; (emotional world) the phenomena that are occurring (physical world).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2193<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Suppose you see a person eating spaghetti in front of you with a &#8220;zzz\u2026&#8221; sound and feel &#8220;I don&#8217;t like it\u2026&#8221; In this case, you may understand that the physical phenomenon (Activating: A) of &#8220;making a sound&#8221; is causing the feeling of &#8220;I don&#8217;t like it&#8221;. In this case, you may understand that the physical phenomenon (Activating: A) of &#8220;making noise&#8221; is causing the feeling (Consequence: C) of &#8220;I don&#8217;t like it,&#8221; but \u201cRational Emotive Behavior Therapy\u201d does not interpret it that way.<br>In other words, the following emotion is caused by the intervening belief (Belief : B) between A and C. What is generally called the ABC theory refers to this process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2193<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are two types of beliefs in\u201cRational Emotive Behavior Therapy\u201d &#8220;rational beliefs&#8221; and &#8220;irrational beliefs&#8221;. \u201cRational Emotive Behavior Therapy\u201d is used to help clients who are suffering from mental disorders due to their irrational beliefs, such as &#8220;I should do this,&#8221; to accept their beliefs in a sane way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cRational Emotive Behavior Therapy\u201d itself is used in counseling, but it is also useful in everyday life and in coaching.<br>Even if there is a cultural background, there is no logical explanation for why spaghetti should not be eaten with sound, but Japanese soba noodles can be eaten with sound, is there?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The feedback to a manager who is not performing well because of an irrational belief that &#8220;managers should take the initiative&#8221; is not logically inevitable, can be explained as a dialogue using logic therapy, in which the manager tells the manager that &#8220;there is no logical necessity for that way of thinking,&#8221; and gives feedback that &#8220;by delegating work to subordinates, the ability and motivation of the subordinates will be enhanced&#8221;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It is said that &#8220;people are animals of assumption&#8221;. 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