{"id":2088,"date":"2022-12-30T00:01:00","date_gmt":"2022-12-29T15:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/?p=2088"},"modified":"2024-03-08T13:05:04","modified_gmt":"2024-03-08T04:05:04","slug":"self-concept-and-experience","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/en\/encyclopedia\/self-concept-and-experience\/","title":{"rendered":"How are self-concept and experience captured?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"628\" src=\"https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/speeds\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/cbl20221230v4.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-652\" srcset=\"https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/speeds\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/cbl20221230v4.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/speeds\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/cbl20221230v4-820x429.jpg 820w, https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/speeds\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/cbl20221230v4-600x314.jpg 600w, https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/speeds\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/cbl20221230v4-768x402.jpg 768w, https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/speeds\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/cbl20221230v4-840x440.jpg 840w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>We all have a self-concept of &#8220;I am a \u3007\u3007 person,&#8221; which is formed based on our past experiences and experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This self-concept includes a person&#8217;s own &#8220;self-esteem&#8221;. It also expresses how we like or dislike ourselves. For example, when joining a new group, one wants to participate as an idealized version of oneself that is effective, productive, humorous, appropriately competitive, supportive of others, and insightful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What often happens, however, is that there is a disconnect between the self-concept we portray and the self we actually experience. When we encounter such a situation, many of us refuse to acknowledge this discrepancy, and instead, we may seek the cause elsewhere, attack the person as being at fault, or make up our own rationalizations, which pull us into our own shells.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We also often defend our self-concept by trying to become indifferent to the fact that it is none of our business. There seems to be a tendency to hide the discrepancy (the discrepancy between one&#8217;s self-created self-concept and one&#8217;s experienced self) from others and from oneself\u2026a &#8220;self-protective tendency&#8221; due to the fear that if one&#8217;s self-concept is destroyed, one will lose oneself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let us illustrate this with the following figure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"760\" src=\"https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/speeds\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/cbl20221230v3.jpg\" alt=\"\u81ea\u5df1\u6982\u5ff5 \u7d4c\u9a13\" class=\"wp-image-651\" style=\"width:600px;height:380px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/speeds\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/cbl20221230v3.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/speeds\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/cbl20221230v3-820x519.jpg 820w, https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/speeds\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/cbl20221230v3-768x486.jpg 768w, https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/speeds\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/cbl20221230v3-840x532.jpg 840w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The realm of \u201c I\u201d is the realm where self-concept and experience are in agreement<br>In the realm of \u201cII\u201d, experience is distorted (rationalized) and accepted because it does not conform to the self-concept.<br>In the realm of \u201cIII\u201d, experience is locked out of consciousness (repressed) because it is grossly inconsistent with the self-concept.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Wide \u201c I\u201darea means that messages from within the person can be received as they are, without distortion, so that the person can smoothly coordinate with self and others. In this case, you can imagine that the person is spontaneous and cheerful, and that he or she is a willing and able contributor to the group.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all have a self-concept of &#8220;I am a \u3007\u3007 person,&#8221; which is formed based on our past experiences and experiences. This self-concept includes a person&#8217;s own &#8220;self-esteem&#8221;. 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