{"id":2052,"date":"2022-12-26T15:10:00","date_gmt":"2022-12-26T06:10:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/?p=2052"},"modified":"2024-03-07T08:42:32","modified_gmt":"2024-03-06T23:42:32","slug":"ego-state","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/info.coaching-labo.co.jp\/en\/encyclopedia\/ego-state\/","title":{"rendered":"What are the “Three Ego States” captured by \u201cTransactional Analysis\u201d?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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How do we understand our counterparts and those around us?
Imagine that here is a mother. This mother shows a completely different attitude from time to time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She is yelling at her child because he doesn’t listen to her very much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She is listening to what her child is trying to say with a smile and kind eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She is thinking about what she is going to do for the day and what steps she is going to take to get it done.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the way to the store, She is chatting happily with her neighbor’s wife, with whom she is good friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She and her husband are having a fight, and she is deflecting with a pout, not listening to what your husband has to say.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In each of these states, she looks like completely different people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eric Berne, the founder of interaction analysis, called the state of thinking “this is who I am” the “ego state.” There are three major symbolic ego states inside a person\u2026 P (Parent), A (Adult), and C (Child).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The P ego state is considered to be a state in which the child has internalized the ways and ideas of his or her parents during infancy, and is described as having two sides: Critical Parent (CP), which is strict, firm, critical, and scolding, and Nurturing Parent (NP), which is kind, protective, and caring. The A ego state is the state of being an adult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The A ego state is the state of an adult, focusing mainly on the functional aspects of the ego, such as a sense of reality, profit and loss, efficiency, and information gathering. It is an ego state in which the ego is able to look at reality calmly, make projections and plans, deal with things appropriately, and solve problems on its own initiative.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The C ego state is a state in which the emotional experiences of childhood are revived and reproduced, and it is pointed out that there is the Free Child (FC), which is a natural child that expresses joy, anger, sorrow, and anger in an innocent manner and behaves in a self-centered manner, and the Adapted Child (AC), which is a child that is obedient to his\/her parents. The other is the AC (Adapted Child), which manifests itself as obedience to the parent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

All three exist within a person. However, everyone is found to have a bias in the ratio of P, A, and C. By looking at the ego and analyzing oneself, one can form better relationships with others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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